How to get married at Gretna Green
How to get married at Gretna Green this year.
I often have customers asking how to get married at Gretna Green. This short guide will let you know the different marriage venues and how to arrainge the booking process.
For many years now Gretna Green has been one of the top spots to get married in the UK, and for many is regarded as the wedding capital on the Scottish borders. It has kept me very busy making my Anvil and Thistle wedding rings.
However, unlike many years ago, you cannot just turn up on the day.
Before you get swept away by the romance of Gretna Green, it’s important to find out about the legal requirements and make sure you follow the correct procedure. At the moment, the shortest period required for arranging your wedding or civil partnership is 30 working days, as this is how long it takes the Registrars to check your documents and draw up your schedule.
So, a bit of planning is essential—no spur-of-the-moment elopements, I’m afraid!
It needs a bit of preparation beforehand which is why I have put together this quick guide on what to do.
Book a date (and try to be flexible in the days).
It is very important to make a start as soon as you can for your wedding. Choose a rough date and look around the different venues there are to be married in.
Most have good websites to give you an idea before you visit. You can see a list of some of them below.
To help you get started, here are some of the main wedding venues in and around Gretna Green:
- The Mill Forge – A hotel with a purpose-built wedding venue, located just a couple of miles from Gretna Green.
- World Famous Old Blacksmith’s Shop – The iconic spot where the famous runaway weddings began, now one of Scotland’s most popular tourist attractions.
- Gretna Hall Hotel – A historic coaching hotel with a longstanding reputation for hosting weddings.
- Gretna Registration Office – The local registration office for official ceremonies.
- Anvil Hall – A former Catholic church transformed into a unique wedding venue.
Take some time to explore these options online, compare what each one offers, and think about what kind of setting would suit you best. Some couples love the tradition of the Old Blacksmith’s Shop, while others might prefer somewhere a little quieter or more modern.
Make a note of phone numbers and give them all a call.
Wedding Packages for Every Group Size.
As you browse the venues, you'll notice that Gretna Green caters to weddings of all shapes and sizes. Whether you’re planning an intimate elopement for just the two of you or a full family gathering, you’ll find packages tailored to suit.
- Weddings for Two: Many locations offer special packages for couples who want a private ceremony—ideal for a romantic, no-fuss celebration.
- Small Parties (up to 10 guests): If you have a handful of close family or friends joining you, several venues provide options designed for small groups, often with cozy spaces and personalized touches.
- Medium Groups (up to 45 guests): Looking to have a larger celebration? There are venues with exclusive use options, so you can invite more guests and have the venue all to yourselves.
- Special Offers: Keep your eye out for midweek deals and seasonal discounts. Popular dates and weekends tend to fill up fast, but you might snag a bargain by being flexible with your timing.
Each venue lists their packages online, so it’s worth comparing what’s included—from ceremony rooms to photography, flowers, and reception options.
Make a note of phone numbers and give them all a call.
You will find a wide variety of prices and you may not get the dates you are after so this is where you need to be flexible.
This is particularly important as there is a high demand for certain times of the year i.e. Valentines, Christmas or notable dates like 28/8/28.
Thinking About Additional Wedding Services
Once you’ve settled on your venue and date, it’s time to consider the finishing touches that will make your wedding day truly memorable. You might want to line up a good photographer—someone like Rankin or one of the local wedding pros—who can capture all those candid moments. Many couples also book hair and makeup artists to make sure everyone looks their best, especially if you want to feel pampered on the morning of.
If you’re after that extra wow factor, think about a venue dresser or stylist. They can help transform your ceremony and reception spaces with décor, floral arrangements, candles, or even quirky props—anything from IKEA’s fairy lights to classic Scottish thistles from a local florist.
Don’t forget other options too:
- Musicians or a DJ to set the mood.
- A wedding car or quirky transport (imagine arriving in a classic London taxi!).
- An experienced celebrant, if you haven’t already secured one.
Take some time to research, read reviews, and maybe ask for recommendations from your venue or other couples. The right team can add those special touches that make your Gretna Green day unique to you.
Scottish Thistle wedding rings can be seen here.
Final Arrangements to Confirm With Your Venue
About two to three months ahead of the big day, it’s time to firm up some of the nitty-gritty details with your chosen venue. Reach out to discuss the menu options, making sure to accommodate any dietary requirements for your guests. Start gathering your final headcount, as most venues—especially around popular spots like Gretna Green—need this in advance to plan seating and catering smoothly.
As the date approaches (about four weeks out), double-check all your arrangements with the venue. Make sure they have your confirmed guest numbers, menu selections, and any special requests sorted out. It’s also wise to clarify timings for the ceremony and reception, double-check access for any suppliers (like florists or photographers), and sort out any outstanding payments or paperwork.
A little extra attention to these details ensures everything runs without a hitch—and lets you focus on the excitement of the day itself.
Special Offers to Consider
Once you’ve settled on your ideal venue and date, keep an eye out for special offers—these can make a significant difference to your budget. Many Gretna Green venues run midweek wedding packages, which are often more affordable than weekends.
Some venues also put together seasonal deals for quieter periods—think early spring or late autumn—or offer discounts if you’re happy with a weekday ceremony. You might find packages with extras included, such as a complimentary bottle of bubbly, a night’s stay at a nearby hotel, or reduced rates for photography.
It’s well worth asking about any last-minute deals or promotional packages, especially if you’re planning well in advance or are open on dates. Being flexible can save you a considerable sum, leaving you more to spend on those little luxuries that make the day truly yours.
Now the Important Things - Marriage and Civil Notice Forms M10 and CP10
If you are having a religious ceremony the Bride and Groom must each complete the Marriage Notice Form M10
The Civil Partnership Form is called the CP10
Both forms and details of how to fill them out can be found here - https://www.nrscotland.gov.uk/registration/registering-a-marriage-or-civil-partnership/
For more information we suggest you contact the Gretna Green Registrar Office.
You can contact The Gretna Registration Office by going to their website at https://www.dumfriesandgalloway.gov.uk/gretna-registration-office
Diamond set Anvil wedding rings can be seen here.
Info and links to wedding venues.
For a religious ceremony the Bride and Groom must collect the marriage schedule from the Gretna Registration Office on the day of the wedding or up to seven days before.
Please check the opening times of the Gretna Registration Office as at present it is closed on Sunday and Monday.
Hand the marriage schedule to the Minister before the wedding ceremony.
The bride and Groom must return the marriage schedule to the Gretna Registration Office within three days of the ceremony.
Don't forget you must also arrange for two persons, aged 16 years of age or over, to be present at your marriage to act as witnesses.
For a civil ceremony contact the venue for your wedding and the hotel will provide you with their own requirements.
A Step-by-Step Guide to Stress-Free Wedding Planning at Gretna Green
To help you stay organised and keep stress at bay, here's a handy checklist for planning your big day:
- Decide on your venue: Look into the various romantic venues around Gretna Green and choose the one that best suits your vision.
- Estimate your party size and requirements: Work out roughly how many guests you'll have and what you want for your special day—think about ceremony style, reception, and any extras.
- Tackle the legal requirements: Complete your marriage or civil partnership notice forms (M10 or CP10 as above), and make sure you’re following all the necessary procedures.
- Contact your chosen venue: Discuss available dates, wedding packages, and prices with your preferred venue.
- Book your venue: Secure your date by paying any required deposits.
- Book additional wedding services: Consider photographers, stylists, florists, or venue dressers if you’d like them.
- Three months before: Start gathering details for your reception—menu choices, final guest numbers, and any special requests.
- One month before: Liaise with your venue to finalise all the details and submit your reception information as required.
- On the day: Arrive, hand over your marriage schedule, say “I do,” and join the long tradition of couples who have married at Gretna Green.
Be sure to keep track of all paperwork and deadlines to ensure everything goes smoothly. And above all, enjoy the lead up to your wedding—this is the start of a grand adventure together!
Here are some popular paces to get married.
https://www.weddingsatgretnagreen.com/
https://www.smithsgretnagreen.com/
https://www.gretnahallhotel.com/weddings/
Amenities and Services Offered by the Main Hotels in Gretna Green
If you’re planning your big day and wondering what to expect from Gretna Green’s top hotels, rest assured you’ll be well looked after—whichever venue you choose.
Smiths at Gretna Green
Situated conveniently opposite the Famous Blacksmiths Shop, Smiths is celebrated for its modern boutique style and attention to detail. Wedding couples can enjoy:
- Private dining options for intimate celebrations
- Luxurious suites, including a Penthouse Balcony with sweeping views of the countryside
- On-site hair and make-up services through their Spoilt Salon
- Experienced wedding team used to managing every detail—from reception to last dance
Smiths is an excellent choice if you want both convenience and a touch of modern luxury for you and your guests.
Gretna Hall Hotel
Built in 1710 and run by the same family for generations, Gretna Hall combines history with comfort. Their key offerings include:
- 97 guest rooms blending classic Scottish manor charm and contemporary features
- Choice of spacious Patio Suites with their own garden access and ponds
- Flexible dining options in both the restaurant and a cosy lounge bar with open fire
- Great value overnight packages, perfect for an elopement or wedding night stay
Whether you stay for a night or a full wedding weekend, Gretna Hall provides an atmospheric, romantic setting.
Each of these hotels is experienced in hosting weddings and welcomes couples from around the world. It’s always wise to get in touch early to discuss your particular needs and secure your preferred dates.
Many local hotels and venues provide additional accommodation for wedding guests, often within walking distance of ceremony locations and Gretna Gateway Outlet Village. Whether you’re looking for a quiet celebration with close family or a larger reception with friends, you’ll find plenty of flexible options to meet your needs in Gretna Green.
Don’t forget your Wedding Rings. (Yes I have to say this don’t I)
I make many styles including the Gretna Green Anvil and Scottish Thistle wedding rings, all original designs and made in my own workshop, so please have a look. Rings usually take around three weeks to make.
Please Note: I do not have a retail shop. The best way to get in touch is by email at
richard@gretnagreenweddingring.com
Thank you
Richard
